Life means relationships: with God, men, and things. Get your relationships right, and life is joy, but it is a burden otherwise. It is natural to love life, and against nature to want it to stop; yet today, as when Christianity was born, many experience life as such a meaningless misery that their thoughts turn seriously to suicide. What has gone wrong? Probably relationships. Though depression may have physical roots and yield to physical treatment, disordered relationships are usually at least part of the trouble, and for a full cure these have to be put straight.
What does that involve? Social workers know how lack of meaningful human relations wastes the spirit, and try to bring help at this point. That alone, however, is less than half the remedy. True joy comes only through a meaningful relationship with God, in tasting his love and walking in Christ’s way. This is the real dolce vita, the life that is genuinely sweet and good.
J.I. Packer
Consider this: Why in the world is solitary confinement used as a punishment for crime? It is because, as Packer insightfully explains, a meaningful life does truly consist of being in caring relationships with people.